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Kate ([personal profile] kate_nepveu) wrote2013-10-11 07:41 am
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coming out

It's National Coming Out Day today, so:

Hi, I'm Kate and I'm bisexual.

I also remain monogamous and happily married, so I am not announcing any change in our family life. I merely want to say that I exist. So, hi.

(Terminology note: I'm coming out as bi not because I believe that gender is binary, but because it's the commonly-understood term for being attracted to a gender other than your own and your own, and I'm doing this to be visible. Yes, I'm bummed that I missed Bisexual Visibility Day. Next year.)
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[personal profile] choirwoman 2013-10-11 11:51 am (UTC)(link)
Me too. All of it. I think everybody who matters to me already knows it, so I'm not making any explicit effort to come out. The same applied on Bisexual Visibility Day, really, I just tweeted that I was leaving my invisibility cloak at home.

(And why is it "National"? Don't other countries get to enjoy it?)
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[personal profile] bibliofile 2013-10-12 05:33 am (UTC)(link)
I fierst learned about Bisexual Visibility Day from Wikipedia, which seemed a bit odd.

Hi, K! and everyone.
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[personal profile] chomiji 2013-10-11 12:01 pm (UTC)(link)

Me three, although also monogamous and married for very long time at this point. Plus a dash of genderqueer.

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[personal profile] buymeaclue 2013-10-11 12:11 pm (UTC)(link)
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[personal profile] yhlee 2013-10-11 12:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi here too. Also monogamous and happily married. And also also trans.
Edited 2013-10-11 12:15 (UTC)
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[personal profile] kass 2013-10-11 02:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, me too, on all of the above except for the part where I'm not Kate. :-)
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[personal profile] lnhammer 2013-10-11 02:37 pm (UTC)(link)
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[personal profile] sovay 2013-10-11 04:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I merely want to say that I exist. So, hi.

Glad you exist! Hello.
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[personal profile] damerell 2013-10-11 04:38 pm (UTC)(link)
"it's the commonly-understood term for being attracted to a gender other than your own" - shome mishtake, shurely, or am I missing something?
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[personal profile] sparkymonster 2013-10-11 05:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Hello bisexual friend!
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[personal profile] rushthatspeaks 2013-10-11 06:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi! Glad you exist!
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[personal profile] storme 2013-10-11 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Yup, same here! Bi (with your same caveat), monogamous, married. And somewhere off in the muddy waters of genderqueerness to boot.
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[personal profile] leighdb 2013-10-11 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
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[personal profile] dhobikikutti 2013-10-12 10:36 am (UTC)(link)
Awww, you're one of us! I did not know this! ::hugs::