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Rose Fox ([personal profile] rosefox) wrote in [personal profile] kate_nepveu 2017-03-05 12:46 am (UTC)

I couldn't help hearing "that's our special thing!" in a poly context; "you did our special thing with someone else/want to stop doing our special thing" is a major, major cause of poly problems. Come to think of it, so is "tell me who you want me to be for you". These are all crucial how to relationship things as well as commentary on how creators and consumers interact.

In the context of Steven's lack of closure with Rose (which has been so much on his mind), I imagine Amethyst unilaterally ending a relationship element with him would have been extra hard, and I'm glad that they got to collaborate on creating closure together. He really needed a situation where he had some agency. He's gotten so used to being pushed around, which I think fed into his insecurity over Lars's unhappiness with the Tiger Philanthropist gig.

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