Oh this is so very valuable, it goes beyond interesting.

The thing that resonates with me (being Mary Doria Russel's age) is what you say about having to process in person, at the moment, and of course with a zillion faces staring at you, knowing that you fucked up before you actually realize you did.

How to recognize these otherwise invisible pitfalls if you're over fifty, and how to deal . . . I think there could be a valuable panel just in that alone.