Thank you for volunteering your account. (As far as I am aware, commenting from non-logged-in users should be on, and at least one person has commented without being logged in (radio button "anonymous"). Any further technical details about the problems would be welcomed.)
For Mary:
I appreciate that you are reading and listening to people's comments.
However, I find your comment ambiguous as to whether it is attempting to convey "I am sorry that you were offended" or "I am sorry that I did something offensive." The former is, of course, not actually an apology at all, and one that is sadly common in discussions about charged social issues, which is why I am sensitive to it. I present this to your attention particularly since this is presented as a statement for the record.
Re: From Mary who is having trouble commenting:
Date: 2011-06-02 03:42 pm (UTC)For Mary:
I appreciate that you are reading and listening to people's comments.
However, I find your comment ambiguous as to whether it is attempting to convey "I am sorry that you were offended" or "I am sorry that I did something offensive." The former is, of course, not actually an apology at all, and one that is sadly common in discussions about charged social issues, which is why I am sensitive to it. I present this to your attention particularly since this is presented as a statement for the record.