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1) If you end up having more than one kid, you'll need a crib and a bed anyway. And the look of the room will change a lot between crib-sized and twin-sized kid; you may have a different idea of what it should be. One of my kids ended up sleeping with us anyway so it would have been a waste. Seems like unnecessary moving parts.

2) Don't take yourself too seriously -- good enough is good enough, and all best all the time wouldn't be a good idea anyway. I think parents tend to drastically overestimate their influence -- kids turn out pretty much the way they would have as long as conditions are fairly reasonable.

Personally, I liked reading childcare books, and either nodding wisely along with the bits I agreed with or shaking my head at the folly of the world at the bits I didn't. I guess I treat advice/stories from others the same way. As expectant parents, this is also your chance to expound on all parenting philosophies and wisdom -- it's much better to do that before your kids show up and mess up all your theories. For instance, I have only a few years left to give out advice on handling teens -- anyone interested?

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