You might try talking to wild_irises. She'd done lots of body image stuff both connected and not with sf. She and Laurie Edison have a blog called Body Impolitic (http://www.laurietobyedison.com/discuss/) which deals with these issues in Real Life.
Or if you don't know her, would you like me to nudge wild_irises to come take a look at this post and comments?
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Date: 2009-02-21 08:53 pm (UTC)Or if you don't know her, would you like me to nudge
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